How to set column ticked from other column

If your column is added manually then your column is working in unbound mode. So, you can just use its unbound expression. If you want to update your checklist column from cel22 then you can use CellValueChanging event.
Here is example:

var table = new DataTable();

table.Columns.AddRange(new[]
{
    new DataColumn("preferred", typeof(string)),
    new DataColumn("checklist", typeof(int))
});

table.Rows.Add("Director Fury", 1);
table.Rows.Add("Maria Hill", 0);

gridControl1.DataSource = table;
gridView1.PopulateColumns();

var column = new GridColumn();
column.FieldName = "cek22";
column.UnboundType = UnboundColumnType.Boolean;
column.UnboundExpression = "[checklist]";
column.Visible = true;

gridView1.Columns.Add(column);

gridView1.CellValueChanging += (sender, e) =>
{
    if (e.Column.FieldName == "cek22")
        gridView1.SetRowCellValue(e.RowHandle, "checklist", e.Value);
};

Here is the result: